Dear Friday's Letters,
Okay so it's been a while. I admit, I've been slacking as of late, but now hopefully I'm back on my A-game, although at this point even my M-game would do.
Dear Bloggy Boot Camp
It's about to get real...
Dear Cold,
Nah, nah, nah, boo, boo. You may have taken my only free week before summer session classes start again, but you will not take Bloggy Boot Camp from me. Prepare for battle. Today I'm bringing out the big guns: Dayquil, Nightquil, Advil, Aleve, Percocet whatever it takes, you are going down...
Dear Certain UNCC professor
I'll admit, I'm still a bit bent out of shape that I missed getting the Chancellors list by 15.5 points. I just want you to know I'm not angrily throwing darts at a photo I printed out of you and neurotically reviewing all my notes and papers to find out where I went wrong. Just kidding...Sorta.
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Friday, May 17, 2013
Thursday, May 16, 2013
How Skimpy is Too Skimpy?
*Sigh*
It happened again.
I took Jasmine to the little indoor kiddie pool Uptown last week. She's a water baby, so if you put her within two feet of water, she's the happiest kid ever. But that's not what I'm posting about.
I'm going to caveate this by saying, I am in no way trying to point the finger of blame or judgement, but at the same time, I'm a bit concerned. It seems every year bathing suits for little girls are getting skimpier and skimpier. And it freaks me out a bit.
While we were at the pool I just happened to glance up and see this adorable little girl. She had the most beautiful blue eyes and a head full of curly hair. And then I looked down. And had to divert my eyes because that adorable little girl was in a swim suit that looked like this:
How do you guys feel about this? How skimpy is too skimpy when it comes to swimsuits for our little girls? Not to single you guys out, but if you disagree, please let me know. Comments and disagreement are always welcome here. In fact, your point of view may provide another perspective that I've never considered.
It happened again.
I took Jasmine to the little indoor kiddie pool Uptown last week. She's a water baby, so if you put her within two feet of water, she's the happiest kid ever. But that's not what I'm posting about.
I'm going to caveate this by saying, I am in no way trying to point the finger of blame or judgement, but at the same time, I'm a bit concerned. It seems every year bathing suits for little girls are getting skimpier and skimpier. And it freaks me out a bit.
While we were at the pool I just happened to glance up and see this adorable little girl. She had the most beautiful blue eyes and a head full of curly hair. And then I looked down. And had to divert my eyes because that adorable little girl was in a swim suit that looked like this:
The only difference is that it didn't have the pink ruffles. Which is actually even worse. At first I figured I was overreacting, but then I started to look around at the other reactions, and I realized it wasn't just me. Other moms had literally stopped in their tracks and were watching in horror. It was really bad. Like noticeably uncomfortable bad. Still, the mom (who was dressed remarkably similar) didn't seem to notice or care.
When we were done at the pool, as I was loading Jasmine into her carseat, I smiled at her, buckled her in, and told her if I ever caught her running around in a bathing suit that small, she would be grounded until the Simpsons finally went off air (so basically until she's like 40).
But still, that entire ride home, the only thing I could think about was that little girl. I guess as an adult it's one thing to wear what you want to wear. If you want to wear a shirt with so much cleavage that the astronauts orbiting space can see that you've got the new Infinity Bra on by Victoria's Secret, that's cool. You're an adult, you can make your own decisions and suffer the consequences, should there be any. But with babies, it makes me extremely uneasy.
We all watch the news. In the back of our minds we know that child predators are real. They exist. And they are sick. And terrifying. And another number of choice adjectives, but we can at least admit they are real. So I have to wonder, if we are aware that they are out there, why are we dolling our children up like they're grown women? Why are we forcing our children to grow up faster and faster these days? Why, just why?
How do you guys feel about this? How skimpy is too skimpy when it comes to swimsuits for our little girls? Not to single you guys out, but if you disagree, please let me know. Comments and disagreement are always welcome here. In fact, your point of view may provide another perspective that I've never considered.
XOXO Reese
Calling All May Swappers
Roses are red,
violets are blue.
Swapping with me,
is the right thing to do.
-Reese
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Wednesday, May 8, 2013
Abercrombie & Fitch: Why They Refuse to Sell Larger Sizes
It's no secret we live in a society that thrives on the idea that being attractive is directly correlated wearing a size small. Every day we are constantly assaulted with hundreds of ad's depicting young skinny attractive care-free models that implicitly promise acceptance and desirability simply by purchasing the product they are selling. By now news of Abercrombie and Fitch's refusal to sell clothing to anyone who wears a size 10 or larger has spread. In the past 24 hours, Abercrombie and Fitch's social media sites have been bombarded with a thousands of angry comments. Former loyal customers are lashing out at the multimillion dollar company; angry at the discriminatory statements made by the CEO.
Here are a few of the comments I snagged from their Facebook page.
"NEVER
going into A&F again, LOST a customer. I have a daughter that is a
size 3, but because of this store's corporate BS about larger sizes,
she will not be allowed to go into your store or make a purchase from
your store and any further gifts from this
store will be returned. I will no longer buy my nephew anything out of
this store again. My other daughter is a size 18 and I will NOT have
her discriminated against. You all should watch the movie Shallow Hal
and take notes."
" Your
company is absolutely disgusting.The comments made by your CEO were so
asinine. I cant even go into your store without getting a headache it
smells so bad. But now I wouldnt wear any of your clothing even if it
was purchased at a thrift store. I hope to raise my children to know
their self worth isn't measured by what kind of clothing they are wearing
or people around them. Shame on you."
In case you missed all the hubbub, allow me to give you a snippet from an interview conducted in 2006 with Abercrombie and Fitch's CEO, Mike Jeffries.
"In every school there are the cool and popular kids, and then there are the not-so-cool kids,' he explained candidly.
'We go after the cool kids. We go after the attractive all-American kid with a great attitude and a lot of friends. A lot of people don’t belong [in our clothes], and they can’t belong. Are we exclusionary? Absolutely....That’s why we hire good-looking
people in our stores. Because good-looking people attract other
good-looking people, and we want to market to cool, good-looking people.
We don’t market to anyone other than that."
I'm going to allow a few moments for you guys to let that statement marinate for a while...
Okay, finished?
Honestly, I can't say I'm particularly surprised about this "revelation". In fact, my Persuasion course this semester has made me acutely aware of the various tactics that advertisers use to appeal to their target demographics. However, those tactics are typically discussed in quiet boardroom meetings. As a rule of thumb, most CEO's tend to keep their discriminatory statements to themselves. Apparently Jeffries didn't get the memo.
These statements only reinforces my distain for this company and others like it. The companies that send the message that in order to be considered attractive you have to be a size 2 or smaller. The companies that send the message that if you are unattractive, or a minority, you are not welcome.
I'm not sure about you guys, but I will take great pleasure in watching their stock plummet daily until Abercrombie and Fitch is no more than a case study that young marketing students refer to as a cautionary tale.
So what do you guys think of this whole situation with Abercrombie and Fitch? Do you shop there frequently? Will you continue to do so? Sound off in the comment section below.
Photo cred) businessinsider
XOXO Reese
Friday, May 3, 2013
Finals Week: May The Curve Be With You
The end is nigh.
I know, I know, it's a tad bit dramatic, but also highly appropriate for what we are getting ready to suffer through. Again.
When finals week approaches, students use a variety of methods to cope with the stress. Some choose to deny. Some drink. I however, scour the internet in search of the funniest memes to post on my blog with the hope that some young desperate student who hasn't slept in two days and is hyped up on RedBull and coffee will stumble across my blog and find some comfort.
So, if you are one of 14,400,000 + students across the country prepping for finals, happy finals week, and may the curve be ever in your favor.
Enjoy!
I know, I know, it's a tad bit dramatic, but also highly appropriate for what we are getting ready to suffer through. Again.
When finals week approaches, students use a variety of methods to cope with the stress. Some choose to deny. Some drink. I however, scour the internet in search of the funniest memes to post on my blog with the hope that some young desperate student who hasn't slept in two days and is hyped up on RedBull and coffee will stumble across my blog and find some comfort.
So, if you are one of 14,400,000 + students across the country prepping for finals, happy finals week, and may the curve be ever in your favor.
Enjoy!
Happy Studying
XOXO Reese
Wednesday, May 1, 2013
Wine it Out Wednesday
I like wine. A lot. I blame this entirely on my dad. As a teen, I was given the role of "wine girl" at family/friend gatherings. It was my job to make sure his glass was filled at all times. I took my job very seriously.
I kid, I kid. Before you guys go dialing CPS, it was a running joke between my dad and I.
My love of wine really evolved from watching how much others enjoyed it. While my college classmates were chugging beers and doing keg stands, I was too busy being fascinated by wine to join in. Everything from the smell to the taste. It's tempting and delicious. It draws you in, and before you know it, you've gone though half the bottle.
I also think of wine as my own personal therapist. Had a rough day? Get a glass of wine. Had a fight with the mister? Get a class of wine. Kids driving you up the wall? Tuck kids into bed early, and get a glass of wine. Who needs an over priced counselor when you can stop by your local grocery store and stock up on relatively inexpensive therapy. (Thank you Harris Teeter).
Anyhow, to all of the mothers that have spent the day chasing around your half-clothed, screaming toddlers who have done every single thing you've asked them not to, this one's for you...
I kid, I kid. Before you guys go dialing CPS, it was a running joke between my dad and I.
My love of wine really evolved from watching how much others enjoyed it. While my college classmates were chugging beers and doing keg stands, I was too busy being fascinated by wine to join in. Everything from the smell to the taste. It's tempting and delicious. It draws you in, and before you know it, you've gone though half the bottle.
I also think of wine as my own personal therapist. Had a rough day? Get a glass of wine. Had a fight with the mister? Get a class of wine. Kids driving you up the wall? Tuck kids into bed early, and get a glass of wine. Who needs an over priced counselor when you can stop by your local grocery store and stock up on relatively inexpensive therapy. (Thank you Harris Teeter).
Anyhow, to all of the mothers that have spent the day chasing around your half-clothed, screaming toddlers who have done every single thing you've asked them not to, this one's for you...
Now that you've had a few laughs, I wanted to share my favorite wine this month. Peter Lehmans Futures Shiraz.
This is a wonderful blend, and because it's so bold, it goes great with nearly everything; Beef, Lamb and even Pork Chops. A few weekends ago, I paired it up with a raspberry filled dark chocolate and it was delicious. I'm typically not a fan of dark chocolate, but it is such a great combination with Shiraz that it's the only way I'll eat it.
So what are your favorite wines? Vineyards? Funny ecard wine memes? Feel free to link it up in the comment section.
Until next time,
XOXO Reese
Monday, April 29, 2013
Saftey Plans and Prep, and Why They are Important
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By no means have I become so paranoid that I've begun making plans to install a fallout shelter in our backyard stocked with canned goods, but at the same time, I don't feel comfortable sitting around, patiently waiting for disaster to strike. I'm a big believer in being prepared, and although you can't prepare for everything, there are certain things that you can discuss that may come in handy one day. Here's a few safety tips that may very well save your life one day:
Check your smoke/carbon monoxide alarms regularly to ensure they're working
I cannot stress enough how important this is. Every year, thousands of people perish because of something so preventable. It's easy to forget about something that's seemingly pointless, but it's important to take the time to check. Make notes on your calendar, create reminders for your phone if you need to, whatever it is that helps you remember. Just. Do. It.
Keep all emergency contact numbers in plain sight
You would be surprised how many people have no idea what the number is for their local police department. While it's true that in the event of an emergency, you should immediately call 911, it's still important to know phone numbers for all local emergency departments. You should also have the numbers of trusted family members and friends that can be contacted in the event of an emergency. Post these numbers in a visible location and make sure that your children know where they are. Update them as needed.
Create a safety plan and perform occasional drills
There are few things on this earth more terrifying than being placed in a situation that you have no control over. Although there are certain situations in which no amount of preparation will ever allow you to have some sort of semblance of control, there are instances where preparation turns out to be a lifesaver. Come up with a fire escape plan, and go over it with your family. Make sure the children are paying attention. Come up with exit points for all the rooms in the house, as well as a place to meet once you get out.
Consider coming up with a similar plan in the event of an intruder. This is especially important for families with small children. Be sure that they know to hide, and stay hidden until told otherwise. If you own weapons, make sure that they are properly stored. Children are naturally curious, and more often than not, they know more than we think they do.
Always have a predetermined rendezvous point
Cell phones die. Towers go down. Phones can get left behind. There are many possible reasons that getting in touch with your loved ones during an emergency situation may not be possible. That's why it is extremely important to have a predetermined meeting location. It also may be wise to discuss how long to wait before moving on, and where you will go from there. Nothing is more terrifying than being separated from your loved ones during a crisis. Remember, when Hurricane Katrina devastated New Orland's, thousands of people had no way of knowing where their loved ones were and if they'd even survived.
Keep a "go-kit" in an easily accessible place
No doubt we've all seen movies where something horrible is happening, and the characters are wasting precious time scrambling about trying to pack food and clothing. Although it may seem incredibly silly, it may one day prove to be very useful to just take a few moments to pack an emergency bag filled with useful items such as non-perishable food, water, clothing, medical and basic survival supplies such as, flashlights, matches, ect. Make copies of important documents that you may need and store those in the bag as well. Store a few supplies in your car as well. As I always say, "It's better to have and not need than to need and not have."
Be sure to keep your gas tank filled
This is hands down one of the most difficult things for me. I am notorious for driving until my tank is on E. Recently though, I've improved. It's amazing how the thought of running out of gas at night, on a deserted road while you're alone with your toddler child can inspire you to make sure you've got a good amount of gas in your tank.
My questions to you guys today are how do you prepare for emergencies? Have you ever lived though a scary situation? If so, how did you make it through? Would love to hear from you guys.
XOXO Reese
Photo cred) addfunny
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